Divorced Couple Confused about their Real Estate

Buying or Selling a Home During Divorce? Here’s What You Need to Know in Colorado

July 26, 20252 min read

Introduction

Divorce is hard. Whether it's a clean split or a complex legal battle, dealing with shared property adds stress to an already emotional time. One of the biggest questions couples face is: What happens to the house? If you're considering selling a home during divorce in Colorado, this guide walks you through what to expect and how to protect your best interests.


Understanding Property Division in Colorado

Colorado is an equitable distribution state. That means property isn’t split 50/50 automatically. Instead, it’s divided fairly based on:

  • How and when the home was acquired

  • Contributions from each spouse (financial and non-financial)

  • Each person's future financial situation

If the home was purchased during the marriage, it’s usually considered marital property. If one partner owned it before the marriage, only the increase in value may be subject to division.


Should You Sell or Stay?

Every situation is different. Ask yourselves:

  • Can either of you afford the home alone?

  • Would keeping it cause emotional strain?

  • Does one partner want to buy the other out?

Selling may offer a clean break, giving both parties a fresh start. If so, working with a neutral third-party real estate professional is crucial.

Exterior of a home for sale in Boudler County Colorado

How to Sell a Home During Divorce in Colorado

Here’s a step-by-step approach:

1. Hire a Realtor Experienced in Divorce Sales

Someone like Monica Van Matre, who understands legal timelines, court involvement, and neutral communication.

2. Agree on Listing Details

Decide together on price, timing, and showing rules. Put everything in writing.

3. Prepare the Home for Sale

Declutter and depersonalize the space. Your Realtor can recommend staging if needed.

4. Communicate Clearly

Emotions may run high. Lean on your agent to coordinate with both parties fairly.

5. Split the Proceeds

Once sold, the proceeds are divided according to the court’s ruling or mutual agreement.

Couple Signing real estate documents with divorce papers nearby


Common Pitfalls to Avoid

  • One partner refusing to sign or cooperate

  • Letting emotions delay the sale

  • Not disclosing divorce status to your Realtor

A smooth sale requires transparency, patience, and the right representation.


Why Work with Monica Van Matre

Monica brings over 21 years of experience in helping clients navigate complex real estate situations, including divorce and probate. Her approach is:

  • Neutral and compassionate

  • Detail-oriented with legal timelines

  • Trusted by attorneys and mediators

From Boulder to Longmont, Lafayette to Erie, Monica supports clients across Colorado.


FAQs

Q: What if one spouse refuses to sell?

A: A judge can order the sale as part of the divorce settlement.

Q: Can we sell before the divorce is finalized?

A: Yes, but both parties must agree or get court approval.

Q: How are proceeds split?

A: Either by mutual agreement or a court order based on equitable distribution.


Ready to Talk?

Schedule your private consultation now at monicavanmatre.com/book-a-consultation. You can also visit us at 1234 Main Street, Lafayette, CO.


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Monica Van Matre is a licensed real estate agent based in Boulder County, Colorado, with over 21 years of experience helping clients buy, sell, and invest in homes. She specializes in rural properties, relocation, and complex situations like probate and divorce. Monica’s mission is to make real estate simple, transparent, and stress-free — no matter your stage in life.

Monica Van Matre

Monica Van Matre is a licensed real estate agent based in Boulder County, Colorado, with over 21 years of experience helping clients buy, sell, and invest in homes. She specializes in rural properties, relocation, and complex situations like probate and divorce. Monica’s mission is to make real estate simple, transparent, and stress-free — no matter your stage in life.

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